Any communication should be mutual. And if one of the parties does not have this, then it is not worth continuing.
Guys know that a girl needs to be pursued. And many do it with great interest and passion.
That's just not always the girls reciprocate. And the seeming inaccessibility in fact turns out to be a simple disinterest in the young man. Here it is better to immediately understand that the girl does not want to communicate with you. And this can be done according to the following characteristic features.
- Takes a long time to respond to messages. You write, she reads, but for a long time the answer does not appear. Perhaps she has nothing to say. Either he is looking for suitable phrases so that in the end communication stops completely;
- Template phrases. There may be answers. But their content is too formulaic. Aby something to answer. Phrases like "yeah, okay, okay, okay" to your detailed messages and questions clearly make it clear that they don’t really want to communicate with you;
- Various reasons to refuse a meeting. You set the time and place. And a person suddenly suddenly has other things to do. Moreover, the reasons for not coming to the meeting are fictitious, strange and sometimes illogical. If such refusals become more frequent, think it might be time to stop trying to start a relationship with this girl;
- Averts gaze when communicating. Lack of eye contact will clearly tell a person whether they want to have a conversation with him or not. When a girl looks at the floor, around, but not at you, she is clearly trying to end this conversation faster. And the new one will definitely not want to continue;
- He does not write, even though he is online. A sign dictated by modern communication through social networks. Nevertheless, it clearly shows the attitude towards the interlocutor. If at the same time you observe how a girl actively posts, writes down stories, comments on photos of mutual friends, and does not write a word to you, then the conclusion suggests itself;
- Lack of initiative. A person who does not want to talk is unlikely to write first. If the initiative, even in such banal matters as correspondence, always comes from the guy, and the girl does not write first, she simply does not want this;
- Prefers others over you. Instead of meeting you, she chooses friends, acquaintances, trips to her grandmother, and so on. Everyone but you. You are last on the list. And sometimes with more pleasure to stay at home than to go with you. Don't waste your time on such things;
- Lies and deceives. You invited to a meeting, she refused, citing poor health. But on the same evening, you met on the street or in an institution. Sheer lies and deceit on her part. She just didn't want to talk to you;
- Indirectly hints. Some girls say directly that she is not interested in communicating with you. Others do it indirectly. Through the same messages, behavior, body language, or with the help of girlfriends and acquaintances;
- Demonstrates a relationship with others. To finally stop communicating with a guy, she can reveal a photo with another young man. Or come with him to a meeting with mutual friends.
Communication online and offline does not always go the way we want. And the affection may not be mutual.
It is better to find out about it right away, to understand all the hints and signs that the girl does not want to communicate with the guy. So you can switch to another beauty and focus on winning the heart of the one that you will really like.
