Flowers are considered one of the most versatile signs of attention for girls. Therefore, guys almost always give bouquets. But in practice it turns out that this is not always appropriate.
Sometimes it seems strange how it is possible to come on a date without a beautiful bouquet of flowers. It turns out you can. And sometimes even needed.
Let's figure out whether it is worth giving flowers. When it is necessary and desirable, and in what situations it is better to find another version of a present or a sign of attention.
When to give flowers
Whether it's a first or any other date, flowers won't be appropriate always and everywhere.
Coming with a bouquet is worth it in such cases.
- You know her tastes well. If you had previously communicated and managed to find out about her habits and preferences, then you could also find out what kind of flowers she likes. Or at least those plants she hates;
- I want to impress. If you recently met a girl, but you want to pleasantly surprise and impress her, that a beautiful bouquet will definitely help you with this. This is a manifestation of caring, generosity;
- The meeting point is a cafe or restaurant. In this case, the bouquet will not become a hindrance. Just be aware. Sitting at a table, you must ask the administrator or waiter to bring a vase. Or transfer flowers for storage for a while. When you leave, pick them up. Do not create unnecessary problems for the girl. Take this question upon yourself;
- Flowers as a compliment. There is no need for a huge and chic bouquet. Vice versa. Buy something cute but small. With such flowers, you can even take a walk in the park or along the promenade.
It is hardly worth saying that flowers are simply necessary if a girl invited you to a birthday, some important event in her life or a celebration. Here, the presence of a bouquet is not even discussed. Be sure to give.
When flowers may be superfluous
Not always a meeting with a girl requires the presence of a bouquet of flowers. In some cases, it can only spoil everything.
Still, consider the following important points.
- She doesn't like flowers. You could learn this from personal communication, her posts on social networks, from friends. If a girl considers flowers a waste of money, and cut plants for her are vandalism, then this idea should definitely be abandoned. You can replace them with chocolate or another pleasant surprise;
- The girl has allergies. You may not know about it. If you are not 100% sure, it is better to postpone the bouquet for a second date. Think about her health;
- A bouquet as a burden on a date. Imagine that in your hands, in addition to your purse and phone, you also have a large bouquet of flowers. And with him you have to walk, walk, go somewhere for several hours. So when planning to go to the cinema or the theater, it is better to refuse flowers. Wherever it will not be possible to put a bouquet in a vase, you do not need to give it;
- You have selected the active first date option. Here the flowers will be completely out of place. You want to give emotions and impressions. It's enough. It is better to postpone the purchase of a bouquet until the evening or the next date when you go to a restaurant to discuss in a calm atmosphere the impressions after a parachute jump or horseback riding;
- This is a simple meeting. Flowers are appropriate if it's a date. But if this is a simple meeting, dinner, flowers are not needed here. You just look at each other. And if it turns out that you liked the girl and you want to meet her, it’s worth giving a bouquet at the end of the evening. For example, say that you need to go out for 2 minutes to call, and return with flowers. This will surprise her even more. And the chances that she will agree to meet again will increase significantly.
Flowers are optional. They should be given when it is appropriate and right. But at the same time, remember that almost all girls are very fond of flowers. And it is simply necessary to give them periodically. Especially if your relationship has been going on for quite some time.
