There is nothing good about cheating. It does not strengthen the relationship at all, but only creates a huge crack in them. And not every couple is able to survive this.
Even if the guy cheated, you forgave him, and resumed the relationship, there are still many questions. One of them is the restoration of trust. After all, a girl is unlikely to be able to trust her boyfriend in the same way as before this manifestation of infidelity.
There is no universal recipe here. Each pair is individual. But you can give some general and quite useful tips.
Have a serious conversation
Don't be afraid to talk about it. Only by talking do adults solve issues and difficulties that arise in relationships, and also get out of crises.
The guy should be aware of his mistake, apologize for it, show a desire to continue the relationship. But forcing him constantly, day after day, to feel guilty, and also to recall betrayal at every opportunity, is definitely not worth it. There will be no talk of any trust then.
Demand honesty from him
Not by blackmail. The guy must understand that you want to believe and trust him. Therefore, he himself will stop lying, hiding something. Become more open and honest.
No threats like "Either you tell me the whole truth, or I'm leaving you." Or "If you lie to me, your relatives, work colleagues will find out about your betrayal" and so on.
It is important to make sure that the guy himself wants to tell you everything honestly and frankly. At first he will have to do it by force. Then it will become a habit. And you will build (renew) trust.
Just keep in mind that everything should be mutual. He tells the truth, and you always remain honest with him.
Trust but verify
You should make sure that his words are true. So a little intelligence still does not hurt.
Unfortunately, some guys lie all the time. And it's impossible to change them. Claiming that he can be trusted, in reality it turns out not at all.
Here it is worth asking for help from friends and acquaintances. The main thing is not to substitute them. Otherwise, the friendship will end.
It is extremely difficult to restore trust in a guy if he cheated. There is not enough effort on the part of the girl. A young man himself must strive to ensure that his beloved believes and trusts him. Otherwise, such a relationship will quickly come to an end. And parting will be inevitable.
