Relationships between a man and a woman, a guy and a girl develop gradually. At first it's just communication. In the modern world - through social networks. Then the first calls, the first meetings and a full-fledged first and long-awaited date.
Mutual sympathy can manifest itself at any of these stages. There are even those who fall in love with beautiful, literate text messages or the voice of a person whom they have never seen in their life.
When meetings become regular, the question arises of what to please and how to surprise him. This is where it’s worth talking about gifts.
A gift is not as expensive as attention
A legendary phrase from the Internet. But it has a pretty clever idea in it. Yes, paying attention is much more important than just showering a person with gifts.
Therefore, at the first stages of a relationship, it is not advised to use expensive gifts. This may be viewed in different ways. This is especially true for girls who receive expensive presents from guys.
But a modest, but beautiful, original present is the perfect choice.
What is the problem with expensive gifts
Let's consider a situation where a guy gives a girl expensive gifts, although he barely knows her.
It would seem that this is such a beautiful gesture. But no. In practice, this can provoke a number of problems and difficult situations. Namely:
- A gift for the last money. To impress a girl, to win her over, a guy can give away the last thing he has in order to purchase this jewelry, a phone, and so on. The girl is unaware of this;
- She only expects this from him. Let's not hide. Girls are different. Including extremely selfish ones. And they expect only gifts from the guys. And the more expensive the better. And those who bring a cheap toy as a present are immediately rejected;
- The girl feels obligated. Expensive gifts, according to women, oblige them to something. Therefore, many of them simply refuse. Especially if there is no mutual sympathy, and she does not want to start a relationship with him;
- A gift as payment for sex. There are also men who consider an expensive gift a pass to bed. And they strongly demand sex for it.
As you can see, you really need to be careful with expensive presents.
How best to proceed
If you are not familiar with a person, then do not rush to spend a lot of money on him. Of course, if you are not one of those described above.
The most correct decision is to start with original, interesting, symbolic gifts. It can be a toy for a girl, a bouquet of flowers, a box of chocolates, and so on.
Better knowing a person, you will understand what he is fond of, what he likes. Then there are already many more options for buying gifts. In addition, there are good reasons to give something.
