Words can hurt. And very strongly. But not everyone fully understands and realizes this. As a result, without wanting it, they finally destroy relations with their soulmate.
Here are 10 examples of what you should definitely not write after a quarrel.
- It's all your fault. Blaming each other for all the problems and troubles is a typical situation for couples who have quarreled and even parted. But most of the time these accusations are unfounded. Dictated solely by emotions and outbursts of anger at the other half. In a quarrel, both are always to blame. Well, maybe with rare exceptions. So refrain from messages with such a message;
- It would be better if we never met. With such SMS, you definitely won’t save or improve your relationship. It was your choice. Now, writing like this, you criticize your own choice. So the problem is with you. You made a mistake by starting to date this person. At least, this is what will be read in the text of such content;
- You are like all guys (girls). Often in pairs during quarrels they write that you are all the same women or men. But we are not a gray mass. Each of us is an individual. Many people react painfully to the phrase you like everyone else. Previously, you were his one and only, most beloved. And after a quarrel, suddenly like everyone else;
- My ex (ex) is way better than you. One of the main mistakes during a quarrel. This is somehow to mention your ex, and also to say that they are somehow better than the current second half. After such a message, you will be sent at best to the former or former. So it is better to be extremely careful in your statements. Otherwise, the quarrel will escalate into a final break;
- Any kind of insult. To insult the person with whom you are together, say that you love him, is clearly not the most sensible and smart decision. Especially girls react sharply to insults. So the quarrel can drag on and get worse. Or maybe you will be completely deleted from your life;
- Swear messages. Try not to use swear words when communicating. Be above it. Filling chats with such words is a sign of weakness, lack of ability to conduct constructive and adult dialogues;
- As expected of you. It turns out that you knew all this time how it would all end. But for some reason, no action was taken. You don't need to write this. This will not end the fight. And only aggravate the situation in your relationship;
- Believe me, I will find a hundred times better than you. So why didn't you find it earlier? Why were you with this person? They said how you love that there is no one better than him in the whole world;
- No one will love you but me, nobody needs you (needed). Such messages are a manifestation of their own weakness. Rather, the author himself is afraid that he will never have such a relationship with anyone. He projects his own fears. Any person is worthy of sincere love;
- If it weren't for me, then you... There can be a lot of options for continuing such a message. If you have a fight, don't say things like that. And write. Even in a fit of feelings and anger. Each person is an accomplished individual. And to ascribe to oneself his merits is low and wrong.
Always be careful what you say. Having quarreled, you do not need to go on about your emotions.
Each time you write a message after a fight, reread it several times before sending it. And think about what clicking the "Submit" button can lead to.
