Love is an amazing thing. The first stage is love. We fall in love with an image, a picture. And then we gradually get to know the person from the inside. This is where the transition from blind love to conscious and sincere love occurs.
It's just that not always behind the image in which we fell in love, there is exactly the person whom you see as your soulmate for the rest of your life. The one with whom you want to create a family, give birth to children, share bitterness and joy.
There are several signs that let you know if this is really your person.
- The same plans for the future. If you have been together for a long time, then you have plans for the future. When people have these plans and desires converge, this is definitely your person. But if one wants a wedding and children, and the second only thinks about how and where to hang out, then the relationship is unlikely to have a future;
- I want to take care. You cook not only because you need to eat. He brings coffee to bed in the morning, helps you get dressed and undressed, brings your favorite fruits or fills you with various sweets. Caring is in the little things. And when it happens with a sincere desire to do something nice and good, this is clearly the person you want to be with;
- You're different, but that doesn't scare you. They say that love is when two people look not at each other, but in the same direction. You can have different hobbies, differ in worldview. But it only helps the relationship. You always have topics for conversation, find compromises in your desires, complement each other, make life together harmonious;
- You are good together. You don't need strangers to have a good time. Just the two of you are enough. Communication is always easy and relaxed. You are not looking for something to talk about. Topics appear on their own. And sometimes you just want to be around without saying a word. You feel good together, feel comfortable and completely safe. This is clearly your person;
- This is the first person you share your experience with. To this person you are the first to tell the good news, the first to tell about the unpleasant situation;
- Support always and everywhere. Sometimes we face failures, we suffer defeats. And this is a good way to check whether your person is currently around or not. If you feel and see support in all situations, then the choice was right. Support can also manifest itself in objective criticism. For example, you had a fight, but you yourself provoked a conflict. When a person is really yours, he will support, but also consider it right to point out a mistake and help in resolving the conflict;
- You don't want to change anything in it. Yes, we are not all perfect. But if you see some continuous flaws, criticize a person for this, try to fix him, then most likely this is not your real soulmate. You don't want to change it. But he may want to change himself. For myself and for you. To become better. This is a good endeavor that is clearly beneficial to the relationship.
Such signs help many people to understand their relationships and themselves. We are all looking for our destiny, that same person. Alas, at the same time, sometimes you have to go through a series of disappointments and breaks. But the end justifies the means. You just want to be happy. And for happiness, you need the same person nearby.
