Relationships are never perfect. People get used to each other, get used to it. And even after many years spent together, there may be misunderstandings, disputes and quarrels.
The only question is how justified are the girl's claims to her boyfriend. You can often hear the phrase "saws brains." But what exactly does this mean, how it manifests itself, in each pair it manifests itself in its own way.
Before jumping into action, it doesn't hurt for a guy to figure out the reasons for this desire to divide his brain into parts.
Possible causes
There are several most likely reasons why a girl saws her boyfriend's brain.
- Problems in education. The reason must be sought in the mother. Or maybe an older married sister. The girl takes the behavior model of the elders. So if her mom blows the brains out of her dad (future son-in-law), there is a chance that the same will happen to you soon. Option two. It is to re-educate or quit before it's too late;
- Egoism and misunderstanding. Many girls want a guy to do everything the first time. But there are various reasons for not fulfilling her requests or not immediately responding to her words. Let's say you have the most important match on TV, there are 5 minutes before the break, and she demands to go sit down to dinner. You think you'll watch it for 5 minutes and then you'll go. But in these 5 minutes, she can take out the brain so that she wants to leave the house with the TV;
- No arguments. When during a quarrel she runs out of arguments, and you clearly feel that you are right, the girl turns on the mode of cutting the brain. She is trying to jump off this topic, and bring up the one in which you will no longer have a chance to win;
- The reason is really in you. If there are jambs on your part, then you have to endure. Listen, put the sawn brain together, draw conclusions and apologize. Just like that.
And it may be that there is no reason. She so wanted. Mercury is not in that phase. Alas, this also happens.
Having understood the reasons, you can proceed to specific actions.
What to do and how to act
If your girlfriend blows your mind, you should think about the situation, and also make certain attempts to stop what you absolutely do not like in her behavior.
The following tips can be given in this regard.
- Don't let yourself be talked to like that. Following her lead, she will continue to cut the brain further. Because a feeling of absolute rightness and power will be created. So don't be a rag;
- Solve the problem together. Girls are emotional beings. And in a fit of feelings they can say anything. Here you already need to show your masculinity. Put her in front of you, start a dialogue, offer to find a solution together. And sometimes it’s better to let her calm down and discuss the situation without emotions;
- Don't use insults. Absolutely impossible. If you value relationships, shut your mouth and keep quiet. Trust me, the truth will be on your side. And when she cools off, she will appreciate your restraint and tolerance for her tantrums;
- Always understand the situation. No need to leave by slamming the door. If the removal of the brain occurs repeatedly, and for the same reason, this topic is very important for her. It should be understood why this is happening. Perhaps the situation is really difficult. But because of her emotionality or for other reasons, she cannot calmly discuss this issue;
- Assess the fairness of her claims. If there is a reason, it must be disassembled and eliminated. If she just likes to take out the brain with or without reason, and such a model of behavior is the norm for her, then most likely it is better for you to leave.
Try not to give her a reason to blow your mind. It is important. Your brain will definitely come in handy.
