In an attempt to win a girl, develop a relationship, or move to a new stage, guys often make stupid mistakes. Instead of getting closer even more, in the end, the guy bothers his chosen one. It ends with quarrels, parting.
In order not to annoy a girl, listen to the following tips.
- Don't overwhelm with messages. You can't write every minute. This will lead to the collapse of the relationship at any stage. Write when it is appropriate, on time and really necessary;
- Control the number of calls. Don't call a hundred times if she doesn't pick up. Wait. Believe me, I saw 100 missed calls, the girl is unlikely to want to call back. And if this is repeated all the time, you will probably be abandoned soon;
- Don't control her every move. It infuriates, annoys every girl. Learn to trust each other. Do not ask where she was, with whom, when she returned, where she went, why, what she did there, and so on. This is annoying and makes you want to stop any communication;
- Less about me, more about her. Girls don't like narcissists. If you constantly talk about yourself, but don’t pay attention to her, it will soon get bored;
- Don't snot. Men's romantic feelings for a lady should not turn into constant snot and tears. So keep that balance strictly. The girl wants to see a man in front of her, not a tearful, vulnerable boy;
- Don't talk about your ex. This is very annoying and repulsive. Such conversations are boring. Believe me, no normal girl will be happy to listen to stories about how you met your ex, where you were, what you did, and so on. For him, you should come first. And other girls have nothing to do here;
- Don't discuss what that she is not interested. If you start excitedly talking about cars, sharing emotions about watching an action movie, then the girl will become bored and uninteresting. Out of courtesy, she will support the conversation 1-2 times. But if this continues all the time, she will eventually get bored;
- Don't compare her to her mother. Regardless of the status of the relationship, you can’t talk about your mother and compare her with her in any case. This is especially true for issues of everyday life, culinary abilities. Having said once that your mother cooks tastier borscht, you will never try her borscht again in your life. Yes, and constant talk about mom is a sentence. This is how the image of a mother's son is formed.
Be yourself, take an interest in her life, teach her to empathize, support her. But everything should be in moderation. Otherwise, care will develop into hyper-care and increased attention and control. With subsequent conflicts and partings.
