Parting is always a painful process. But far from always it means a complete break in relations and the lack of opportunities to resume them.
First, ask yourself if it's even worth trying. If love is real, there are feelings, and both of you will really feel good, then act.
If the reason for parting in treason is a separate topic for conversation. Here we will give useful and correct advice for guys who broke up with their beloved, but want to return her at all costs.
- Accept her decision to break up. Don't show your emotions, keep them to yourself. No need to show fear or pour negativity on her. It’s better to say that you don’t want to leave, but if she so desires, you respect her opinion. Thus, she will see that you need her, but you also respect her decisions;
- Be patient. You need to wait. Relationships need a break. At least 2 weeks. Don't write or call. Regardless of the situation. It is possible that she herself is aware of everything, and will be the first to write to you;
- Think about the reasons. Understand the reasons that led to the breakup. Assess your role and guilt in this. Is it possible to fix everything and will the situation not happen again if you make peace. Without knowing the reason, breakups can become a permanent part of your relationship. And they will become rather toxic;
- Work on yourself. A pause in a relationship should be beneficial. Change. Both externally and psychologically. Start going to the gym, swimming pool, read books, make useful and new acquaintances. This is also work on perfect mistakes;
- Provoke mild jealousy. If you want to get your beloved back, obviously you should not meet another girl and post photos of your kisses with her. Show that you can live without her, communicate with other people, be in companies with friends, not only male, but also female. It is possible that the girl herself after that will want to return you;
- Show your changes. Not only in words, but also in deeds;
- Be persistent. When the pause ends, proceed to more decisive action. If she does not agree to a meeting, guard her somewhere, give a beautiful bouquet, arrange a surprise. Here already show your imagination. Moreover, no one knows the girl better than you. Her preferences, hobbies, desires and so on;
- Offer to start over with a clean slate. If she sees you of that former one, with the same actions, phrases and actions, because of which the separation happened, she will not want to step on the same rake. But starting from scratch is a much more attractive option.
The main thing is that the guy does not spoil all the work and efforts that he put into resuming relations with his beloved. It will be as stupid as possible to break up a second time for the same reason as during the first break. Work on the bugs. And it is important that the girl also takes reciprocal steps.
