The first date is an opportunity to make a first impression on a girl. And there won't be a second chance. You will either do everything perfectly and continue the relationship, or let her know that it is better not to agree with you on a second date.
Not only the place plays a big role, but also the atmosphere. It is created through conversations. Communication should be easy, relaxed. This is not a social survey or interrogation. A dialogue between two people.
Since you do not know each other well, it is better to communicate on general topics. This will allow you to get to know your interlocutor better, as well as to understand how promising the relationship is.
Here are a few topics that are sure to be the best choice for communication on a first date.
- Food. If the date is in a cafe or restaurant, you can strike up a conversation while planning to place an order. Learn about preferences and tastes. Talk about what you love. Just don't start a conversation with foods you hate. Suddenly it turns out that she loves them. It will be awkward;
- Pets. The theme is light, capable of evoking predominantly positive emotions. Tell your stories, listen to stories about her cat, dog or parrot;
- Social activity. This is a wide range of topics, including friends, acquaintances, favorite type of recreation, places where the interlocutor prefers to visit, and so on. Someone prefers loneliness, while others cannot imagine leisure without a bunch of friends, parties and discos;
- Leisure and recreation. This topic follows from the previous one. It is worth finding out how, where and with whom a person likes to spend his free time, what rest is for him. This is important information, because this way you can find out whether you are suitable for each other or not;
- Hobbies and hobbies. Each person is unique, but hobbies are often similar in people. By talking about what a person likes to do, you can find a lot in common. Topics related to hobbies and hobbies can develop into many hours of conversation;
- A little about art. It's not just paintings. This includes books, music, movies, and so on. Discussing your favorite movie, talking about your favorite book, or talking about the latest interview of a famous person - these are just a few of the conversations that can be started on a first date;
- Travel. This is a separate issue. Tell us about your travels, listen to the stories of the interlocutor. Show photos and videos if you see fit;
- What will happen in the future. It is also worth talking about the future. Not globally, but individually. Where are you going to go, what are you planning to do and so on;
- Anecdotes and funny stories. The girl is easy to win thanks to a good sense of humor. Therefore, a few funny stories will be very helpful to start a conversation. An anecdote will defuse the situation. If a girl sincerely laughs with you, you have almost won her heart;
- Study and work. The topic is boring, but it can also be discussed. Just don't give too much time or attention. The discussion should serve as an impetus for the development of other topics for communication.
Try to create an atmosphere of easy and relaxed communication. And then you won't have to search for topics for conversations on the prompts on your phone. They will appear on their own.
